We just launched our instance at https://beehaw.org not too long ago.
However, a good number of people have been asking questions like this for the past several days on our Discord server.
P.S. - I will have a big surprise (hopefully…if all goes well) for the Lemmy community in March.
Everything about Lemmy; bugs, gripes, praises, and advocacy.
For discussion about the lemmy.ml instance, go to !meta@lemmy.ml.
Also, spreading the word around to other online spaces, that would either want to host their own lemmy server, or join here. @nutomic@lemmy.ml and I just want to code, and would really appreciate ppl helping with that.